Key Strategies to Remember

Autism is a spectrum

Every autistic person is different – embrace their unique profile of strengths and challenges.

Neurodiversity, not pathology

Autism is a natural variation in how the brain works. Viewing it as a difference (not a defect) fosters acceptance and self-esteem.

Communication and connection are possible for everyone

Even if an autistic person doesn’t speak, they have thoughts and feelings – find the tools to help them express those.

Support and educate

Support and educate both the individual and the community around them. A well-informed, compassionate support network makes a huge difference in outcomes.

Patience and positivity go a long way

Progress may be slow or nonlinear, but with love, consistency, and the right supports, autistic individuals can learn, grow, and lead fulfilling lives.

Helpful Tips

Start where your child is, not where others expect them to be.

Progress looks different for every child. Let their needs and pace guide your next steps, not someone else’s timeline.

Don’t wait for a crisis to seek support.

Whether it’s finding a therapist, joining a parent group, or reading up on sensory needs — early support often makes things smoother for both of you.

When in doubt, slow it down.

Autistic kids often thrive on predictability and gentle transitions. Slowing down your pace can give them the space they need to process and respond.

Repetition isn’t regression.

Repeating words, routines, or behaviors is often how kids regulate or learn — it’s not a step backwards. Follow their lead and look for meaning in the pattern.

Take care of yourself, too.

You can’t pour from an empty cup. Making time for your own rest, support, and reflection isn’t selfish — it’s essential.

External Resources

Autism 101 (Autism Speaks): An introduction to autism spectrum disorder, common signs, and early symptoms autismspeaks.org.

Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN): A resource by and for autistic people, offering insight into neurodiversity and self-advocacy (helpful for both individuals and parents).

National Autistic Society – “What is Autism”: Overview of autism with emphasis on communication, behaviors, and sensory differences autism.org.ukreframingautism.org.au.

Reframing Autism (Lived Experience Guides): Autistic-led perspectives on understanding autism and practical tips for families reframingautism.org.aureframingautism.org.au.